By KNL

Sexting: Sexting is the slang term for the use of primarily a cell phone or other similar electronic device to distribute pictures or video of sexually explicit messages or photographs. A growing phenomena known as "Sexting" is causing a growing concern for parents, students, schools, and law enforcement.

We were first introduced to cell phones as a means to communicate when our schedules took us outside of the home. Next came the ability to send written messages, known as texting. As technology continued to improve, taking pictures with your cell phone became a great way to share photos with those not with us.

Life was good. Parents could stay in touch with their children, their spouses, and friends. Years later, who would have thought this combination of technology, would have such a negative impact on our society. Recent News reports have shared these alarming statistics:

• 1 in 5 teens have participated in "sexting".
• 44% of those teens know those photos or messages will be shared.
• 75% know "sexting" is a very bad idea with severe consequences.

These numbers are increasing daily across the country. It does not target any one group and is not limited to a specific age category. With the numbers growing, parents should be very concerned. Parents need to take responsibility to let their kids know this is not cute nor is it funny and by no means is it acceptable behavior. In fact, "sexting" has become a criminal offense and those involved are being charged and prosecuted.

Some of the legal ramifications the offenders could face under the current law in most states are:

• Possession of Child Pornography
• Distribution of Child Pornography
• Appearing in Child Pornography
• Registering as a Sex Offender

The question being asked is: Should "sexting" fall under the Child Pornography laws? Originally this law was written to protect children from pedophiles. "Sexting" differs as the offender and the victim are often one in the same person and therefore need to be handled under different laws. Reportedly, 15 states are looking into making changes in the way the law reads for "sexting". Utah, Vermont, and Nebraska have already made changes and adjustments for "sexting" offenders.

As parents we need to communicate to our children that "Sexting" is serious, it's criminal, and it can ruin lives. Here are a few tips from experts on "Sexting":

• Google your child's first and last name in quotations.
• This will allow you to see if your child's name is out there on the internet.
• Google your child's cell phone number in quotations.
• Download "Google Desktop"
• This is a free software program which will help you search anything on your child's computer. Take special note to videos as well as photos.
• Ask yourself does your child need a phone with camera capabilities?
• Call your current cell phone provider and request all picture messages be disabled.
• Look at what other electronic devices your children have which may have similar capabilities.
• For additional resources and information go to: http://www.wiredsafety.org/

Keep in mind this is not about invading your child's privacy.

This is about being a parent and keeping our children safe.